The Words Of The Wise Bring Healing
The wise person recognizes that words shape us and mold us. The phrase “I love you” sent from the right person can evoke an incredibly positive emotional response in us. “I hate you” can likewise evoke a highly negative emotional response.
A famous saying asserts, “sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me.”
As fine as that sounds, we all know that words can hurt long after the bruises of being hit by sticks or stones have faded. Hurtful words almost always hurt deeply, and they are not easily forgotten. The wise person knows not to be remembered for making cutting remarks. Instead, they present others with words that facilitate healing and goodwill. Kind and encouraging words are like a healing balm on a tortured soul, filling us with hope.
Words are mighty. No matter where they’re at in life, be careful what you say to someone. You want your comments to impact the listener’s life positively. It is wise to use words very carefully, no matter who you are talking to.
The wise person recognizes that words shape us and mold us. The phrase “I love you” sent from the right person can evoke an incredibly positive emotional response in us. “I hate you” can likewise evoke a highly negative emotional response.
I would argue that who you are is due, in part, to the words you heard growing up. If that is true, how can you use your words more carefully to shape a better tomorrow for yourself and others? Can you encourage somebody today? Maybe you can compliment the guy behind the counter at your local fast food place instead of criticizing him?
Maybe you can create some lighthearted but optimistic chit-chat with the people in your workplace. Perhaps you can encourage your family and write them a card to tell them how proud you are of them. Maybe say how much you appreciate and love your spouse.
Perhaps you can call a friend on the phone in the next few minutes? You could laugh over some old memories. Be wise and connect with someone using words that will remove any confusion regarding your love and goodwill towards them.
Teach yourself the acronym W.A.I.T., which stands for W.hy A.m I. T.alking? Before reacting to what someone just said to you in a conversation, pause for five seconds and ask yourself a few questions: